I admit it. I let stress get to me. Easily. I let the little annoyances that should stay little annoyances become enormous dust ups in my life. When the girls whine about something in the back of the car, I don't try and shrug it off, I freak out, turn red and scream "QUIET!" Same thing with Jason. I am the master at turning an innocent statement he makes and twist it into the world's worst attack on me or my parenting or my food choices or the color of my socks. Seriously, it's stupid. At work, I deal with tons of different personalities, work ambitions, and really, generations. It's hard, but I love my job. I love my company. Yet, I make myself stressed out over stupid issues. I can't get past the petty arguments, the gossiping, and the lack of teamwork that happens from time to time and focus on the work that we do and the career that I want.
I am starting to feel marginally better from the 2 weeks of Team Weight Loss training. I feel more energetic and I like going. I think it's helping me realize how out of balance my life has been. I am either completely stressed out and a raging biotch or I am a complete slug on the couch. There hasn't been a happy medium.
I want that happy medium. I have to find more time to just focus and find my center. Whether it be a few minutes in the morning, take a walking break during the day, or doing Yoga on the Wii Fit at night---something needs to happen. It has to be something that I can fit into the schedule I have now, I don't want to add more time away from home. Maybe we'll do family yoga sessions? :) I think teaching the girls how to find calm and learn yoga is a good thing. Kaitlyn has a special after-school yoga class starting in a few weeks (we love our school district!) and I really think she'll love it.
What do you do to calm down? Do you use your Wii Fit to do yoga?


5 comments:
This can be so hard! I am finding that the weekends bring a completely different me out, I am calmer almost. Not quite where I should be but better than during the week.
I need me time, but I hate taking the time away from the family. It is really hard to find that balance.
Ah, the McDonald family Stress gene. I highly recommend yoga. I've been doing it once a week since the spring, and it's amazing how much of a difference it makes. I also try to put things into perspective. Sometimes it's hard, but I know that, as bad as things may seem at the moment, in the long run it's not the end of the world.
I took the best 8 week Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Class at the U of M's Center for Spirituality and Healing. 8 weeks??? you ask. I know, right? Who has 8 weeks. I probably wouldn't have been able to invest the time if I hadnt' done a story on it. But I LOVED learning to mediate. The yoga was awesome, too. I know there's a book called Mindful Parenting that people in the class recommended for moms.
Now when I'm stressed a breath deeply, close my eyes and say "I am a mountain." It comes from a meditation we learned.
BTW...there's an adorable picture of you in your hairnet on my blog today.
I struggle with this too, especially in the winter when I'm not talking the kids on walks.
I REALLY enjoy pilates class but don't have a gym membership anymore and doing it home just isn't the same for me.
I have a family yoga DVD that the kids like. I can mail it to you if you want to borrow it to see if that works for you guys.
After recently seeing this video, I'm trying to "stand in a different place" when I become overwhelmed. Hard to remember in the moment, but worth a try!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TRTP2RpYAkQ&feature=player_embedded
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